Be a Good Listener

The Benefits and Advantages of Being a Good Listener

“A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while, he knows something.” – Wilson Mizner Do you dominate the conversation or let other people talk, too? Many people like to talk about themselves, about what they have done and not done, about their health, ideas, etc. They …

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Don’t Give Power to Negativity

How not to Give Power to Negativity in Your Life

You can stop giving power to negativity in your life and stop contributing negativity to the world. It’s a matter of attitude and discipline. Thoughts and feelings of anger, pain, dissatisfaction, revenge, and violence are constantly released into the earth’s atmosphere. You don’t have to broadcast your share of negativity. …

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How to Get Rid of Laziness

How to Overcome Laziness and Stop Being Lazy

How to stop being lazy? Do you, like most people, sometimes feel lazy? It could be a momentary feeling caused by being tired, or it could be a habitual state. You might feel lazy when you need to perform a particular activity, when you need more motivation, or when you …

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Personal Growth Techniques

Why Personal Growth Techniques Do not Always Work, and When They Do

Sometimes, after reading about the results of personal growth techniques, people start enthusiastically repeating affirmations, visualizing and using various inner growth techniques. They expect immediate results and might get them if they aim at minor changes in their life. Gaining immediate results can make you feel happy and satisfied. However, …

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Self Improvement

Self Improvement – What Is It and What Do You Improve?

The term self-improvement is a little misleading and, sometimes, erroneously interpreted. What do you actually improve? You don’t improve your “self” and you don’t improve your “spirit”. You improve and develop specific skills that are already within you. These skills might be weak or in a dormant state. You also …

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How to Get Rid of Anxieties

How to Get Rid of Anxieties and Enjoy Inner Peace

It seems that a great number of people suffer from anxiety. The ADDA – Anxiety and Depression Association of America, says that anxiety disorders are the most common mental illness in the U.S., affecting 40 million adults in the United States age 18 and older, or 18.1% of the population …

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Self Acceptance

Self-Acceptance – What Is It and What Does It Mean?

We hear so much about self-acceptance from people who study or teach personal growth methods. What do these words mean? Does it mean accepting your weaknesses or negative habits and doing nothing about them? Does it mean accepting your behavior, attitude, and lifestyle and doing nothing to change and improve? …

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Why Positive Thinking Is Not Working

Reasons Why Positive Thinking Is Not Working

People often ask me why positive thinking does not work for them. Here is an email message I have received recently: “I’ve been trying this whole positive thinking thing for about 2 years now with no results. Things actually seen to be getting worse. “I’m up to my neck in …

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