One evening, I came back home from a disastrous date and said to my mother, “This is it. I give up. I can no longer deal with these horrible dates anymore.”
My mother looked at me and said, “Let me tell you a story.”
“A salesman, who passes from door to door to sell his goods, knows that at every tenth door, he will make a profitable sale. Nevertheless, he has to stay positive, knock on nine doors, receive negative responses, yet remain polite until he reaches the tenth door, where he will successfully sell his goods and make a nice profit.
Finding your soulmate resembles this salesperson.
You have to keep feeling positive and optimistic despite endless disappointments and keep believing that you are going to find your soulmate.
Like the salesperson who keeps getting doors slammed in his face yet doesn’t give up and keeps going on, so should you not give in to disappointments but keep making efforts to find your soulmate.
Failures and disappointments have led you to a negative attitude, however, giving up and abstaining from any romantic involvement will not help you find your life partner.
Remember that WINNERS NEVER GIVE UP, no matter what obstacles they encounter.
If you want to attract love into your life, you have to adopt an optimistic attitude despite unpleasant dates and many disappointments.
When you act in this way, you give yourself the opportunity to arrive at the door, where the tenant of the house will welcome you with love and kindness.”
This is what my dear mother told me, and she was right.
How I Found Love
After that talk, I decided to stop being judgmental and find faults in every man I met.
A few months later, I met a nice man and decided to give myself the chance to get acquainted with him. So, I kept dating him, though I wasn’t sure whether I liked him or not.
He was a bit introverted, while I was, and still am, open and extroverted. Slowly, with many ups and downs, we gave ourselves the opportunity to get acquainted and love each other, and after a year, we got married.
We are happy together. We love each other and live in peace (most of the time) with our differences of opinion.
My conclusion is that if you want to attract love into your life you have to do the following:
- First and most important, adopt a positive attitude toward your chances to find love, rather than dwelling on past heartbreaks and heartaches.
- Be persistent about it, even if nothing at the present supports your positive attitude.
- Practice the mental techniques you will find in the book about attracting love into your life.
Read the book:
Want to Find Your True Love? Believe that It’s Possible
Follow the advice, and learn how to use the power of your mind to attract into your life the love you are waiting for.
About the Author
Dorina Sasson has been trained in Louise L. Hay’s teacher training course. She is a certified teacher for “You can heal your life” study course, and “Love yourself, heal your life” workshop.